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DeAnna Lam Unique Wedding Ceremonies

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A Ceremony
As Unique as your Love

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Your Unique Ceremony

As Wedding Officiant
I'm a Midwife to your Marriage
Committed to Support the Longevity of your Love!

We will craft a One-of-a-Kind Ceremony
letting the Spirit of Your Love shine
in your own unique flavors!

Lauren & Erik

Getting married is more than just a ceremony. It’s a ritual, a rite of passage, a test, and an event in one’s life which sets the course for your whole future.

DeAnna is more then a ceremony officiant. She is a guide and a creative inspiration who brings the best out of the bride and groom through the process of a wedding.

DeAnna didn’t only give us an incredible ritual which held sacred all the aspects of our dream wedding, she also helped us come together when stress got high, and launched our marriage in a beautiful and powerful way.

Every couple will feel grateful to work with DeAnna. Her flexibility and wisdom make it easy to design your dream ceremony and her performance is graceful, brilliant, and full of love.”

~ Lauren and Erik Ohlsen ~ Happily married since 2005

Sarah & Katelin

DeAnna worked with us with such a loving presence, got to know us well, and created with us a ceremony that felt loving, meaningful, spiritual and personal to us as a couple.

Our family and community still remember it as one of the most beautiful and meaningful weddings they were a part of.

Our wedding ceremony was a joyful, centering, and profound experience:

not only on the day itself, but also the process of designing our ceremony with DeAnna.

At the time we were married, same-sex weddings were not only unusual but illegal. We didn’t have models for what our ceremony would look like. DeAnna balanced creating a ceremony that felt magical, specific, and unique to us as well as grounded in world traditions.

We felt so held and supported by DeAnna, that several years later we asked her to facilitate our first son’s baby blessing! She has been a gift!

~ Sarah and Katelin

Laura & Craig

Testimonial coming soon…

Kirsi & Phillip

We wanted something unique and truly memorable. DeAnna helped us create the perfect ceremony according to our wishes!

We contacted DeAnna to help plan a wedding ceremony that was based on different wedding traditions from around the world, including hand-fasting.

She gave us suggestions from which we could choose our favorites, including helping with the wedding vows.

The ceremony itself was very warm and DeAnna made sure we were both feeling at ease before the ceremony started.

It was a small and intimate event, which left good memories for everyone attending.

I would recommend DeAnna’s services to any couple who is looking for a unique way to celebrate the special occasion.

DeAnna is friendly, accommodating and easy to work with!

~ Kirsi & Phillip

Maika & Doug

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Andrea & Dimitri

We loved having DeAnna as part of our wedding preparation and wedding day!

Enjoyable and easy to work with, DeAnna listened to our ideas and was able to guide us through this new experience. Together, we planned an intimate, encompassing and appropriate ceremony. DeAnna included our desires along with traditions that felt right for us.

The day went as planned and upon reflection we realized that so much of the day was woven together by none other than DeAnna herself in her forethought and experience!

Having DeAnna as our officiant was well received by our family and friends, many of whom commented on how wonderful of a ceremony it was. We highly recommend her!

~ Andrea & Dimitri

Nancy & Howard

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Make your Love last a Lifetime
(Pre-Marital Coaching)

I love Coaching Couples
in the Art of growing the Garden of their Love
into a sustainable Forest

Pre-Marital Coaching

DeAnna & Julian, San Diego, 1993

In 1990, when Julian and I were a new couple, we were invited to attend a Relationship Program for couples. “Why?” I asked my coach who invited us, “we’ve been together for only six months, we’re madly in love, we didn’t even have a fight yet. Why would we want to come to a couples program?”

The answer stayed with me ever since: “You don’t have to be sick in order to get better!”

Julian and I went through that program, and the set of relationship skills we learned there sustains us to this day. It’s the wind beneath our wings and what nourishes the longevity of our relationship.

What we learned felt so practical, relevant, and easy-to-use, that I took the next step and trained professionally to offer these Win-Win Relationship Skills to others.

For years I held a thriving Relationship Coaching practice, but decided to focus on
working with couples in the early stages of their love,
before they accumulate much baggage, in order to teach them
how to avoid accumulating baggage in the first place!

DeAnna helped us come together when stress got high, and launched our marriage in a beautiful and powerful way.

~ Lauren and Erik Ohlsen ~ Happily married since 2005

Pre-Marital Coaching

will teach you how to skillfully

Sustain your Relationship for Life!

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Every Mile Stone
Deserves a Ceremony!

Engagements, Bridal Showers, Baby Showers,
Birthdays, Graduations, Coming of Age, Rites of Passage:
Every Mile Stone deserves a Ceremony!

Celebrate your Mile Stones

When our daughter was six months old, it dawned on me that she has been in the world less than a full pregnancy. I created a ceremony for her, which we celebrated with family and friends when she reached nine months, to honor her “1st pregnancy out of the womb”.

Ceremonies are the most meaningful way to mark special occasions in your life, while being witnessed and celebrated by your loved ones.

Over the years I enjoyed co-creating ceremonies for people who wished to mark a myriad of mile stones, such as conception, adoption, family blending, coming of age, book publishing, winning a battle with terminal illness, overcoming an emotional trauma, sobriety, baby & bridal showers, anniversaries, house blessings, memorials, and others.

We felt so held and supported by DeAnna, that several years later we asked her to facilitate our first son’s baby blessing!

She has been a gift!

~ Sarah and Katelin 

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